Wednesday, April 28, 2021

Food Matters

I was sooo depressed with my baby's pace of eating development. But we have finally turned a corner.

We DID start feeding rice cereal with vitamin D drops at 4 months old. We tried a variety of purees. Avocado, green bean, pea, carrot, squash, sweet potato, pumpkin, pear, apple, banana and plum. Every time we tried something that wasn't 100% smooth like peas or lentils, our baby would gag and spit up. THE BIG BOOK OF ORGANIC BABY FOOD says single ingredient purees start at 6 months. Once baby has been exposed to the ingredient 3x then it's considered safe. Smooth combination purees are for 6-8 months. We skipped this. Chunky combination purees were for 9-12 months. We also skipped this. 

Strangely, around 13 months, Albert would shriek through meals and refuse to eat. I figured he wanted more control over his eating. The best thing I did was to eat WITH him in his play yard, giving him some of my meal. It started with a bit of tortilla, then some tomato and cucumber, and even some meat. He does gag a bit but he is more determined to swallow and he keeps the food down, which is a BIG relief.

So that brings us to "finger food" which the book says is appropriate for 10 months and up. "Toddler meals" are marked for 12-18 months. "Family meals" are marked 12 months and up. I feel like I'm almost skipping ahead to this. Yesterday we had pork taquitos and our toddler enjoyed the cheesy meat filling, the baked crispy tortilla, guacamole, tomato pieces, and yogurt (in place of sour cream). It was messy but so much more fun than listening to a screeching kiddo while trying to shovel puree into his mouth.

Saturday, April 10, 2021

Budget under COVID

Home & Utilities $18

- LADWP / gas / internet / phone / Netflix

I don't see us being able to cut out anything here. We use and enjoy all of the stuff in this group.

Transportation $17

- gas / car pmt

Same here. Even though I don't love having to drive, I do love our minivan and we are on track to having it paid off in like 9-10 months.

Groceries $25

- Von's / Aldi / Target

Not sure we can cut anything here except to continue cloth diapering and keep making our own baby food. The convenience and portability of prepackaged baby food and disposable diapers is addictive. But if we focus on a sustainable summer, I think we can continue to save in this category.

Personal & Family Care $1

- petco

Undeniable. Edna needs her spa time.

Health $2

- Costco / RiteAid 

This is vitamins. Prenatals, poly-vi-sol and baby Tylenol. Not able to be cut.

Insurance $5.50 

- car insurance

Again, not optional. But I guess we could lower it to liability when the car is paid off.

Restaurants & Dining $12

- bakery & fast food

This we are working to cut down. Every meal we make at home whittles away at this spending.

Shopping & Entertainment $24

- Google / Amazon / Flickr / Blog pro / NYT / LAT / Walmart / Grammarly / Costco / Consignment / Etsy

This one was a big shock to me. It seems like the most bloated category. I am just starting to get into the "Buy Nothing" project and I wonder if I could cut some of our spending in this area by just not buying stuff.

Travel $0

COVID has blessed us in this area. We don't travel and haven't for a year.

Cash, checks, misc $70

- rent

We have to pay for where we live. No question.

Giving $2

- paypal

Business Expenses $0


Education $0


Finance $41

- Capex / Citibank / taxes

This is I guess where we pay down our debts. We have 2 more years on our fertility loan, so this category isn't going anywhere anytime soon.

Uncategorized $0

I was shocked to consider how much we spend EACH DAY on these various categories. I know we make a good salary and we are building up our savings and investments. But since I became a mom, I feel like I'm spending so much on toys and clothes and crap for myself and the Baby. I wonder if my spending is on stuff I need or stuff I want or just to have something to look forward to when a package arrives.

The analysis I would really like to do is a cost comparison between cloth and disposable diapers. I want to add up what we spent in terms of money and time to build our stash. Then add in the extra cost of water and electricity in the past year compared to the previous year. Just to know.

56 week update

I did 170 days of MyFitnessPal (about half a year) and then took a break for the past month. The last day I logged was March 11 and today is April 10. What did I learn by taking a break? Well it's not like I was seeing dramatic weight loss by counting macros and I didn't see dramatic weight gain by stopping. But just last night I had the thought, "now my baby isn't getting the protein he was getting before." And that was motivating enough to have me reconsider restarting my tracking habit.

In the 6 months after my baby was born, I ate anything and everything. Then between 6 months and a year, I tried to eat definitely more than 100 g protein, more like 145 g protein per day. I don't think I ever achieved the extreme of "lower carb," eating 192 g protein and less than 100 g carbs per day. More often I was following "moderate carb" but eating too many carbs. Following "higher carb" in terms of grams of carbs yet still not getting enough protein. 

I resolve hereby to start tracking again with the aim of getting 145 g of protein but also trying to eat and drink less than 168 g of carbs.

The school year is almost over. My baby is almost a toddler. I can almost run again. I have 3 new sports bras (2 SheFit and 1 Enell) that cost a pretty penny. ($137 + $64) in pesto pink, dusky dark pink and black. I have 5 pairs of high-waisted yoga pants with pockets ($20 each) in light-blue, dark-blue, blue camo, olive green and black. I really have been enjoying walking and jogging and doing my HIIT workouts in these new digs.

I got a wildbird ring sling. Double linen, extra long ($93). I love it. It feels so sturdy. It's warm and comforting. It can help Albert sit on my lap, be near me while I do little household tasks, take a nap while I work, and most importantly breastfeed. I wanted to get us a little gift to celebrate making it to 1 year and help us continue for as long as possible. The sling is supposed to accommodate up to 35 lbs. If he stays in the 50th percentile, he will be only 26.4 lbs at age 2. If by some insane twist of fate, he skyrockets into the 97th percentile, he will still only weigh 33 lbs at age 2.

I haven't washed the bras or ring sling yet. I feel I need to read up on how to do it without ruining the things.

Another recent purchase was a stroller organizer. This has been great. As my husband and I have been playing each day "by ear" with respect to who will watch the baby and when, he takes the car in the early morning, then I have been walking the baby to our work in the stroller. Then he loads the baby and stroller into the car. Then I walk home or they come and pick me up. So the stroller has become a mode of transportation, just as I hoped it would. The thing is, we only had one diaper bag. It stayed in the car. But now we have two stroller organizers which have a compartment for the diapers and wipes and a changing pad. So we always have one or two diapers ready.

I didn't get to go to the zoo with the baby yet. Hopefully we will this summer. I'm also kind of missing the beach and the swimming pool. We got the next size up bathing suit and an insulated wetsuit for the baby. I don't consider myself a water-loving person but I am getting tired of being cooped up all day with the baby and it will be nice to get out to the pool. We got a tent for the beach and an umbrella and a folding wagon. I want to start using them again.

It might be time to give up on FSTs. Maybe time to switch over to AIOs and/or pocket diapers. Maybe I judged them too soon. Maybe I will love them now. Maybe they gave my baby a rash because they needed to be stripped. Maybe they gave my baby a rash because he was small then but he's bigger now. Maybe summer is the best time to go to AIOs because it's so hot and they can be line-dried. And I'll have more time because I won't be working outside the house.

Last thing. I got an Easter dress for $27. I got a little suit for Albert for $7.50. Do we get dressed up again and take our own photos or just move on? Do we head over to a portrait studio and have a professional take the photos indoors? Do we hire someone to take the photos here at our house indoors or meet them somewhere outdoors? I hate wondering if I will regret not taking the photos. I went so far as to find the portrait studio and to get the digital files (which I would want) costs $99.

Ok I think that's most of the thoughts in my mind. So I guess that means time for breakfast and actual work. I mean school work.

Love this 
https://www.ahaparenting.com/ask-the-doctor-1/how-to-discipline-14-month-old
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14616730903016979